Call It Off

Hello bloggers. Yesterday baru je balik dari first floorball training.
My knee was injured, when i got a hit by one male player. It hurts
a little but okay la kan.. baru la ade sportsmanship. tak sakit, tak
feel la kan.. although agak memalukan and i hate to be vulnerable,
kene tolak dgn lelaki and satu court mcm "whoooaa.. ouch man" but
whatever... first time and first experience for me. ape2 pun boleh jadi.

Recently sume dok busy kes Anwar Ibrahim terlepas dr tuduhan
meliwat. I don't know what to say but nak salahkan hakim pun
tak boleh jgak. But kalau kau terlepas kat dunia, tak bermakna
kau terlepas kat akhirat nanti. Allah Maha Mengetahui, so be it
and leave it there.. Tak payah nak bising-bising berpolitik dan
condemn itu ini di laman sosial, it is so disturbing and annoying
especially the Malays.. tolong la. Dari buat spekulasi, lagi byk kau
bcakap, lagi byk carutan dan tuduhan kau buat, tambah lagi dosa.
Byk lagi bende lain kau bleh buat. Bertafakur and bersyukur kt Tuhan
yang semua orang terselamat dari ancaman bom, tu lagi baik bukan?

A few days back, one of my boy friend came forwards and asking me
for some advice about relationship. He just got dumped by his gf
and asking me is he the one to blame? And i was like... "okay tell
me what happened and i'll try my best to help you". And he was like
"Okay... this is what happen..."

...Well..

We all (our cycle of friends) knows how laid back this boy is. Very
cool, doesn't really care, not to say that he take things for granted,
but he is almost close to being an ignorant person. But that's the
problem.. when it comes to relationship, you cannot be THAT ignorant.
At least, have some sort of commitment and responsibility. Because
a friend can forgive and let go.. but when it comes to someone special,
it is about true feelings. And i said to him.. although gf dia memang
seriously a pain in the ass, attention seeker and such a drama queen,
you have to understand that every woman is very fragile and everybody
cries. Even since we born, the first thing we did was cried. that' the sign
that indicate we're alive. So try to walk in her shoes, and walk miles away..
see if that's hurt or not. Truth be told, memang i despise the GF too dgn her
annoying-ness, childish-ness and her lame status, but i know that she's hurt.
I can feel it, because it takes one to know one; i been ignored before too.

The GF was trying so hard to impress him and being so caring towards him
yet he feels nothing.. no spark at all. at the first place pun, the GF yg beriya2
nak couple dengan dia- that was a very honest mistake, not an accident. And
sbb rasa kesian kat si GF ni, dia pun accept the relationship, whats that for?
And i said to him that "you hurt her feelings more than u already did.. by
pretending and acting like you really have feelings for her and watch her fall
and at the end of the day you tell her that 'we were done'..." Come on guys,
don't be a hypocrite. If the feelings is not there, just call it off. No use in
pretending and play along and rasa kesian because a woman.., as much
as they hate rejection, they even hate being cheated and lied. So please..

Mcm pepatah cakap:

"A girl can be your best friend, wife, worst enemy or worst
nightmare. It just depends on how you treat her"

So... need i say more?


p/s: da lama tak membebel macam orang tua.